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TechChick came of age not in lecture halls or therapy offices but in the raw, pixelated chaos of the early internet’s adult industry. She learned, not from clinical studies, but from the flood of confessions, pleas, and absurd queries that landed in her inbox. This book is her fearless, unfiltered account of sex in all its messy, hilarious, and deeply human complexity. Moving through the intimate geographies of foreplay, oral sex, penetration, fetish culture, sexual myths, and awkward realities, she blends explicit instruction, reader letters, and behind-the-scenes glimpses of her life as a webmistress. Reading it feels less like consulting a manual than sitting in a kitchen at 2 a.m. with a friend who refuses to soften the truth, no matter how graphic or taboo. 

At its heart, the book champions the fundamentals. Foreplay is a main event, oral sex on women an act of devotion, and blowjobs acts of intimacy rather than reluctant duties. She dismantles scripted “plans” in favor of attentiveness, busts myths about the G-spot and “normal” sex, and infuses even the most explicit lessons with dark humor. Her authority rests on lived experience and thousands of candid reader exchanges, giving her advice raw credibility. Profane, brash, and unflinching, the book is as much a sociological snapshot as it is a practical guide. 

An education and entertainment in equal measure for those unafraid to get messy.

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