Welcome to BookView Interview, a conversation series where BookView talks to authors.

Recently, we interviewed author Nikki Sitch, a mom, volunteer coach, landman, athlete, a Land Negotiator in the Energy Industry, and author of Daisy’s Adventures in Love, a continuation from Love, Lust and WTF – Daisy’s Dating Adventures. (Read the review here.)

Nikki Sitch is a mom, volunteer coach, landman, athlete, and more recently, she discovered her passion as a writer. A Land Negotiator in the Energy Industry by day, Nikki fills her off hours, when not writing, with things she loves to do: spend time with family and friends, swim, bike, rollerblade, read, travel, golf, and walk.

Nikki wrote Daisy’s Adventures in Love,her second book, while living in Calgary, Alberta, Canada with her two boys and one dog.

Daisy’s Adventures in Love isNikki’s second book and is a continuation from Love, Lust and WTF – Daisy’s Dating Adventures. Stay tuned for book three, picking up Daisy’s adventures where Daisy’s Adventures in Love leaves off.

Website: http://nikkisitch.ca

Facebook author page: https://www.Facebook.com/nikkisitchauthor

How often do you base your characters on real people?

Mostly never. I purposely avoid doing this. That being said, some “may” be loosely inspired by the odd person I know.

How many hours a day do you write?

My life is incredibly busy. I have a full time and demanding job in the energy industry, two boys, I volunteer at the YMCA coaching masters swimming and I like to keep active. That doesn’t leave a whole lot of time to write. I’ve always been masterful at multi-tasking, so I make it all go round! Many days I don’t write at all. Other days I write for hours. When suddenly inspired, often I’ll type a few notes on my phone, so I don’t forget to write about it when time allows. Sometimes, I write late into the night after my little guy is in bed. Often, I have to force myself to stop typing and go to bed, for fear of pulling an all-nighter. I sure as heck can’t pull those off anymore!

Does writing energize or exhaust you?

Writing energizes me. It makes me laugh. It lights my soul and heart on fire. It’s a new passion for me, one that I absolutely adore. I look forward to the moments and hours where I can kick back and write.

Do you read your book reviews? Do they please you or annoy you? Do you think you can learn a lot from reading criticism about your work?

Yes, I do. So far, all have been very complimentary. I think constructive criticism within reviews provide me with the opportunity to improve, to write even better, to continue to reach for the stars.  Some criticism also tells me that my books hit their mark, telling me about biases that exist out there, pushing the comfort of what’s “normal” in people’s lives… and I like that.

Do you Google yourself?

Ha! Yes, all the time. My book and me. It’s fascinating to see what gets picked up and where. Germany, Australia, China, the UK, the USA, and Canada, of course!

Who and what ultimately inspired you to become a writer?

Writing wasn’t an item on my bucket list. It just happened. Honestly, it never occurred to me to write a book. There I was, living life, sharing my crazy online dating stories with friends and a couple of them suggested that I blog my experiences. NO WAY was I doing that. I’m not airing my dirty laundry for the entire world to see! One friend suggested that I flip it around and write a fictional novel loosely inspired by my experiences, maybe even inspired by the experiences of my other single friends. I laughed at the idea. I definitely didn’t have time to take on a project like that. But my curiosity was piqued. One day, I shrugged and thought, “What’s the worst that could happen?” I started writing and it flowed. And flowed. I loved it. I found a new and mostly untapped potential within myself. I typically write business letters and take factual notes. This fictional writing stuff is a riot. Book 2 flowed naturally from where book 1 left off.  Recording my audiobook was a whole different experience as well. It’s amazing how different a book sounds when you speak it out loud as opposed to reading it. Very cool!

How long on average does it take you to write a book?

I started writing in October 2020. My first book took roughly 6 months to write. It was 65,000 words. Then I sent it for editing and requested comments from my friends. Based on their feedback, I rocked out another 25,000 words through increased dialogue and digging a little deeper into my creative side. It was ready for publication approximately 9 months after I started hitting random keys on my computer. Ha! I started formulating ideas for my second book while I was still writing my first book. I wrote my second book in about 6 months as well.

How do you begin a book?

Quite simply, I sit down and start writing. I don’t plan anything out. I just go! I write chapters but in no particular order. I figure that part out at the end, just before I reach out to my beta readers, or sometimes after they’ve read and provided feedback. For example, chapter 1 in Love, Lust & WTF?!! was the last chapter that I wrote. Computers are lovely tools. Copy and paste is my favourite feature.  

If asked, what would your friends and family say about you?

My family and friends would say that I’m driven, kind, I accomplish what I set out to do, a great multi-tasker, that I have a good heart, I’m logical, intelligent, and I have a good sense of humour. Ha, some would say that I accomplish more in a day by 9:00am than they do in an entire day.

Which scene or chapter in the book is your favorite? Why?

This was a somewhat difficult question to answer, it’s almost as if each chapter is a child. I like the scenes where Brad is coming to grips with everything his child is going through, going through his own feelings and biases, figuring out how to fight for and support his kid. I don’t want to go into to much detail as I don’t want to give anything away, but I think these are very important words on the page and in the lives of folks experiencing what Brad and his family is.

What do you hope readers will take away from this story?

I want readers to laugh-out-loud, to learn about issues that some families deal with on a daily basis, to open their minds, to be entertained, to normalize LGBTQ+ family challenges, and possibly to push and expand their comfort limits.

What makes this book important right now?

It’s timely. It’s relevant. It resonates. It’s educational. It’s laugh-out-loud funny. These days we’re dealing with so many restrictions in our daily lives, this is a great book to kick back, enjoy and bring laughter back into our lives, all while some serious issues are explored by Daisy and her family.

What’s next for you?

I’m several paragraphs into book 3… and I’m excited to continue with Daisy’s adventures. You never know where she might end up, but she’ll have fun getting there, that’s for sure!

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